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[quote=Anonymous][quote]My world hasn't imploded BTW. My kids are older and know what happened. They lived under the same roof and know what I went through. I was the one who decided to leave my husband and I told him of the affair. We have come up with a new life that works better for everyone so life does go on without all the drama.[/quote] I doubt that seriously. I doubt it all went down smoothly. One of my many friends who have imploded their world had a great job (big law) and did tons of volunteer work too. What she did not have is a life! She did not see inside herself. Everything was an extrinsict justification of her life. There is a great book that describes this "how to be good" it is fiction - and actually hilarious. I am sure there was drama, and you should have left before the affair. I am not saying don't get divorced. I am saying don't have an affair. I am sorry your H sucked. I am sure you could have moved onto "life does go on" a little more smoothly without the affair. I know hindsight is a little blind. I believe in redemption, I just don't believe in not learning from your mistakes and encouraging others to make them.[/quote]
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