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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let him take you from behind while you fantasize about the other men in your head.  It's like using him as your masturbation toy.  It's OK to disconnect like that during sex.  He's probably doing the same thing.  [/quote]

What if he makes noise or something? Doesn’t that break your concentration?[/quote]

You just have to get deep into the fantasy! It’s fun. But doesn’t really work for me if my partner is just plain bad at sex. Some things cannot be remedied. [/quote]

What do you do imagine? Like a crush or an actor? A romance novel character?[/quote]

I get revved up thinking about other men and then during the act I imagine dirty stories I’ve read and I make up my own too 😂. They have to be different for some reason.  DH’s presence is largely irrelevant but it’s still better than doing it alone.[/quote]

NP here. I’m guilty of doing this on occasion too. Whenever I do, DH always makes a comment like “WOW, you were AMAZING. I think I need a minute”.  🤣

So, its good for him too![/quote]

Pp you are responding to and I’m pretty convinced women on this board don’t want sex with their husbands because they think they have to want my husbands.  I love my husband, I enjoy sex with him, I think he’s handsome and he smells nice, but I haven’t fantasized about him in 15 years maybe.  I have a very high sex drive and I think about anybody else.  I have high testosterone and I’m pretty sure this is how men’s brains work.  They’ll have sex with their wives but get turned on by literally anybody.[/quote]

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