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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Single man 40 here. I want children but dating has been such a slog that I’ve basically given up. I’m 6’1” and a Navy veteran. Currently making good money in defense tech. Healthy (lift and run regularly) with broad social life.

For some reason the women that I want aren’t interested in me. My hinge is set for 27-32 because I want children.[b] Women closer to my age don’t interest me. [/b][i]I tried dating a few in the 35-43 range and they all struggled with vulnerability and emotional communication. May have been my filtering but these were all professional women who dedicated everything to their careers.

Recently I deleted my Hinge and stopped looking. I don’t want to be an old father. My best friends dad was in his 80s when we were in college and I don’t want that experience if I have children.

I don’t get lonely and I’m used to living alone. So dating is optional and less desirable for me now. [/quote]

The highlighted is the key. Date your age or work with a shrink/sex therapist why you can't get it up with women your own age group. There are plenty of fit women in their late 30s and early 40s in my gym.

Younger women don't want you much older men! They are attracted to the likes/men their age.[/quote]

Right! When I was 27 I would have found the idea of dating a 40 year old never married man laughable. [/quote]

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