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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he was surprised by the conversation, his first reaction may not have been the best reaction.  Don’t blow this out of proportion.

[b]Double barrel names aren’t common outside of certain cultures and they can be a burden.   [/b]

This is a good chance to use communication skills that will serve you both well in marriage.  Good luck![/quote]

Burden how? [/quote]
Bubbling in all those letters on the SAT, not being able to complete it on written forms (running out of boxes), which can lead to inconsistency across documents, what to do when they themselves get married...
No dog in this fight, but I knew I didnt want to hyphenate for this reason.
Almost all of the moms in my neighborhood kept their names, and most of the kids have dad's last name (one hyphenates but they have short names)[/quote]

I'm hyphenated. Never had any of the issues you list.[/quote]

its very confusing what do you children decide or do you let them chose which name to take? WILD! they could have 3 different options, husband, wife's or the hyphan or maybe they can make a cool one up like fireman, or unicorn [/quote]

I like Oliphant[/quote]

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