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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]The most dignified path is just to pretend not to notice the utter rudeness, have your party and be kind and gracious even if only two people show up. People will observe your dignity & lack of drama and you will “win”. Then you can seek out other friends because who wants this kind of petty crap as an adult[/b]![/quote]

100% Agree.  This is the best advice.  OP, maybe you to take a step back and stop obsessing about this woman and your need for drama. Just throw a great party, have a great time, and forget about her.  [/quote]

Clueless. Op isn't obsessed. She knows, like a lot of us who've experienced this, how bad this can be. My entire family was excluded from so much in our neighborhood because of one very insecure awful woman. [/quote]

+1. I feel bad for OP because I've also dealt with exclusion in our neighborhood because of one very insecure woman. It started with something very similar too, she scheduled a last minute birthday brunch for herself and all of the mom's in the neighborhood overlapping with my daughter's birthday party weeks after the birthday party was scheduled, and her family was invited and had already RSVPed. Then got very upset when I said that I wouldn't be able to attend because I was going to be setting up for my daughter's party. It went downhill from there, she has a a trail of friends she's burned - but somehow she maintains this queen bee status in the neighborhood. Women like that are toxic, and they are everywhere in the suburbs. OP has mad this woman mad, and if she has enough social power as the OP says she does, the other women will not defend OP. They might still be nice to her, but they absolutely will not defend her to the queen bee. OP needs to find new friends. [/quote]

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