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Reply to "My ex is married and has a baby due any day now. We haven’t been broken up two years yet…"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t see how any of this has to do with you. You were out of the picture.[/quote] This. And the timeline isn't that crazy to me. He already knew her so that saves a ton of time in the getting to know you steps. Baby and married in 2 years? Not that crazy [/quote] DP Not that crazy, but should be crazy. I've been reading DCUM long enough and people need more time and childcare experience before having children of their own. [/quote] If he's 37 and this is a life ling friend maybe they wanted to get a move on, especially if they wanted multiple kids. My friend remarried and his wife was expecting after about a year of dating (they had both been married before, both very much wanted kids but hadn't had them in their first marriages) but they were 39, they didn't have time to wait. They've been together for five years now and have two kids and as far as I can tell are very happy.[/quote] That's great when it works. It's not great when you're reading about children born to dysfunctional pessimists, abusive psychopaths and criminals. Pressure from age, society and family only increase the chances of overlooking and minimizing red flags clearly indicating someone who should not be responsible for a child. [/quote] If he's known this woman since they were teens surely he'd be aware if she was any of those things?[/quote]
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