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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t see how any of this has to do with you. You were out of the picture.[/quote]

This. And the timeline isn't that crazy to me. He already knew her so that saves a ton of time in the getting to know you steps.  Baby and married in 2 years?  Not that crazy [/quote]

Not that crazy, but should be crazy.

I've been reading DCUM long enough and people need more time and childcare experience before having children of their own. [/quote]

If you’re in your mid-late 30s?[/quote]

Irrelevant when the goal is establishing a stable healthy foundation for raising children. [/quote]

Relevant if you’re trying to have children. Unfortunately, women don’t have the same leisure as men to spend years. At that age, especially with having already known the person before dating, your discernment should be pretty finely tuned.[/quote]

And dating for 1.5 years is enough time IMO.[/quote]

I had friends who were together for over 5 years before they married and broke up in under a year. If there's a sweet spot to how long you should date first, I haven't seen it play out.[/quote]

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