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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why in the world do you want a person next to you who doesn't want to be with you?
Imagine your kids having to stay in relationships they don't want to stay. I hated that my parents stayed together til we were 18.[/quote]

Unless he gives up custody you are still forced to stay in a “relationship” with him to coparent, schedule, academic & health decisions, child rearing together.

True you won’t live together, which alleviates abusive situations thought there can still be financial and verbal and emotional al abuse when ducted and coparenting.

Divorce also opens up risks such as: new women, new bio children, new step children, strained resources, your mutual descendants are not financial protected in any will unless irrevocable trusts are set up.

OP’s spouse seems cognitively impaired to the demands of adult life, married with children. He wants some Peter Pan life himself, without demands, where he can work, see his kids occasionally, and be alone most times.

He will likely start dating again for ego sake, if he is employed and looks ok.  then he will repeat the cycle. Not want to step up. Quit. Repeat. [/quote]

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People think divorce is freedom. It is not if you have kids and share custody, which is the default. It is not over until the kids grow up. [/quote]

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