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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I told him I was leaving or getting a lover if he didn't get his act together.[/quote]

DP, but same story. Her life is amazing, SAHM because she wants to be, lots of friends and hobby time, etc. We had a terrible year with no sex and I finally told her that fun time is over and we'll be moving to a 50/50 split on everything, and if she can't manage that then she gets kicked out of the house. Things are going great now, she just had to make contact with reality.

Get mad as hell and give your partner an ultimatum that you WILL carry out. Don't get suckered into forever counseling. [/quote]

What’s that mean “if she can’t manage that”?

What were you trying to get her to do 50% of? [/quote]

If she wanted to go the roommate route, then she could do roommate stuff. Pay 50% of the mortgage. Pay her car payment. Pay half the utilities. Pay half the house maintenance. Etc. Didn't turn out that way, thankfully. We had a much happier result, which is that I pay for everything, continue to do lots of chores around the house, and she's down to fkk.

It's simple but not easy.[/quote]

What was her reaction when you laid it out as such?

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Kind of like falling out of a canoe into cold water. At first there were the tears and the hyperventilating, but ultimately she realized that she had been stuck and this had to be fixed ASAP to move forward and not lose the life that she loved.[/quote]

You’ve posted here before and you still sound like a psychopath. Your wife isn’t enjoying it. [/quote]

But he’s such an alleged active and involved father, fabulous meal planner & cook, and hands on home owner! [/quote]

And magically was going to just kick his wife out of the house with no division of assets! Amazing! [/quote]

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