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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a white American woman, and for the last couple years I’ve been dating men from other cultures and really enjoy it.

However, a common theme that pops up within the first few dates is their parents. Often parents have a lot of input on who they marry, and [b]it’s pretty clear they would not approve of me since I’m not from their culture and don’t fit what their parents want (such as not wanting kid[/b]s, even though many of these guys say they don’t really care about having their own kids, it’s mostly for their parents). One guy I dated even said that he’s never married because he would have to “go to war” with his parents to marry an American woman.

Is it even worth it to keep dating these guys? I know there’s the stereotype that they’ll string you along for months/years then dump you for someone their parents approve of, and I don’t really want to waste my time. But it also feels weird to me to dismiss them, even though the parent thing seems to come up every time. [/quote]

In my opinion, most of these guys that say they "don't really care" about having kids are probably just saying that to date/sleep with you and will dump you to marry a family-oriented woman from their own culture when the time is right, just as you predicted.

If you are really committed to the whole childfree thing you would be much better off seeking out a progressive white dude who thinks we will all be dead in 20 years due to climate change or whatever.[/quote]

This.

OP, are you really unaware of the stereotype amongst many brown people that white women are easy/promiscuous? Many of these guys come to America and Europe with their primary exposure to white women being p0rn. Add this to the fact that fair skin / eyes is still prized in many of these places and you can see why these guys will say anything to get you in bed but never commit. [/quote]

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