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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe get in touch with the nursing home and inquire how this would work? I also have difficulties imagining an outsider not related to family visiting an elder in a nursing home, when the whole point of a nursing home is caretaking. Maybe people who have more experience with nursing homes should chime in. Otherwise it sounds like your sister wants to outsource her own visits with Larla, meaning she'd not go because it's depressing and instead Larla goes. Is your mom mentally out of it and has no clue who visits?[/quote]

We had to pay for overnight caregivers for my mil in memory care in a sunrise at $9k per month. they were good they just didn't have the staff to have someone on her all through the night and it was worth it to us after a fall. but that was a huge amount of money, maybe an additional $5k per month. op can afford it and doesn't want to do any of the work herself so she should just pay. her sister will deal with staffing issues when a caregiver calls in sick, etc. no brainer.[/quote]

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