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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I are both first gen immigrants.  There was an understanding that DH, the first born son would should the cost of education for his younger sister as the parents couldn’t afford it.  DH went to college on scholarships and work/study programs.  So when we started getting serious in mid 20s, he had asked how I felt about his financial responsibilities.  I didn’t hesitate to support him on that as there was no way his sister would be able to go to med school without support.  So we did what we could on our combined starter income.

30 years later, SIL is now a specialist making good income.  We have never asked her to repay us.  She is grateful for everything we did and has supported my children on their education (even though we have enough to cover the costs ourselves).

OP’s family dynamics might be different. I guess I see this as the typical immigrant way of trying to break out of the bottom rung. [/quote]

Must be nice to be the youngest in the family. [/quote]

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