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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m in a large local FB group, and a woman posted looking for an in-home nanny for her 6mo, and eventually for another baby due this October. I clicked her profile out of curiosity and immediately recognized her husband from his profile photo.

Turns out he’s the same guy my friend casually dated for a couple weeks back in March. We even met him once at a small event before he abruptly ghosted her. My friend had absolutely no idea he was married and, at the time, had a 4mo and a pregnant wife.

I showed my friend the FB profile to confirm, and yes, it’s definitely him, real first name and all.

I asked my friend whether we should somehow tell the wife, but she wants no involvement. I don’t know this woman at all and wouldn’t otherwise be connected to her, and my friend isn’t on FB so no connection there. I’m just a random stranger.

Would you message her anonymously or stay out of it? Part of me feels awful for her, especially with a baby and another on the way, but part of me thinks maybe it’s not my place? [/quote]

If that friend is truly your friend, you have just one option: Mind Your Own Business.

The mere fact that you're still thinking about telling that woman proves how bad you are as a friend. Your friend has already asked you to keep out of it. She doesn’t want to get involved in that chaos. But you don’t care about what she wants.

You should show respect and loyalty to your friend, not to someone you don’t even know.[/quote]

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