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[quote=Anonymous]She needs to spend her time on meaningful things. That could be going to school, engaging deeply in a hobby, working, or keeping up the house/yard/cars. But she needs to find some way to constructively spend 30-40 hours a week that doesn’t depend on you/her fiance. Planning her wedding doesn’t count. Sit her down and talk with her about what her 5-year plan is. And/or insist that the young couple do some premarital counseling. The issue isn’t necessary that she isn’t working; it’s that she isn’t doing much of anything that will lead to growth. [/quote]
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