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[quote=Anonymous]I must be really naive. I find a lot of these responses shocking. I do my best to be as actively loving, supportive, and doting on both my husband and my child as I can be. i reserve specific time to be with my husband, just the two of us, just as I do with my daughter. However, if both needed me at the same time, and their needs were of equal intensity, there is absolutely no way I would ever choose my husband. my daughter comes first. And I know my husband would answer this the same way. I would be very disappointed and confused if he did not; this shared view of parenting is one of the reasons I knew I wanted to have a child with him. Of course my child is not the center of the universe, but she is the center of MY universe, and his, and we will do everything we can to make sure she always knows that. Of course husbands or wives can get angry and upset and marriages can fail, but adults can also compromise and await the easier times and look toward the greater good. the way we are raising our daughter, especially through infancy, toddlerhood, and her early childhood years, will shape the way she views and embraces the world for the rest of her life and there is absolutely nothing more important than that.[/quote]
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