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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Curious why you're divorced if you get along well enough to continue having sex with some regularity. Or is it that given neither of you are in other relationships, you serve as placeholders for sex in each other's lives?[/quote]
[b]He had an affair, dated her, and then ended things because of her issues[/b]. We already had a major conflict before the affair, so that was just the breaking point. After that, we were both done. [b]He’s said he wants to be remarried[/b].[/quote]

The guy sounds like a user. He used you while you were married and now he's using you again. Good for him, I guess? Not good for you. Maybe ask yourself why you're willing to do this. To me, it reeks of desperation (you just want to feel like he still loves you).[/quote]

This.  Not sleeping with your ex is not a moral thing.  Your ex is a manipulative abuser, and you don't see it and you are willing to accept that (several times a month).  Please see a therapist and figure out why you don't want or can't create more for yourself.

If I was dating you, and I knew this about you, being in a relationship with you would be an absolute no for me because it is clear you have low self-esteem and no sense of boundaries. [/quote]

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