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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is this in person conversations or are they over text?[/quote]
OP sometimes they are in person sometimes they are over text. The one about my body yesterday was over text bc the thing he said that hurt my feelings happened over text. The one about RSVP’ing to my friend’s party happened in person. [/quote]

I need to know what he said about your body and the context. i.e. was it out of left field ("you need a boob job") or was it in response to a question (do these jeans make my ass look fat?")[/quote]
OP It was not in response to anything I said. He referenced someone being my size and then sent me a link to a tweet where someone referred to that person as "short and chubby." When I was like, wtf he proceeded to say "I'm not doing this today, you're picking a fight."

I gained 15 pounds last year due to stress from a job. I now have a less stressful job and have been working with a dietician and I work out 4-5x a week. I am consistently losing, albeit slowly bc I was always super thin and so I'm not used to having to diet. He knows I am insecure about my current weight. Then proceeds to ask why I am so hard on myself. Uh, maybe because of you? [/quote]

This is rude and thoughtless. If once, could be ignored to give benefit of doubt for misunderstanding but two strikes are a red flag.[/quote]

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