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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, how far away is your parent from needing hospice care?  Is it a several years away or several weeks away situation?  Continuing care facilities often only accept new patients who currently only need whatever is their lowest level of service.  Also good facilities at any level often have waitlists.

If you want meaningful answers, you need to indicate the state and what your mom’s current needs are.[/quote]

We don't know timing, that's the issue. Things could continue as they are for several years or decline rapidly (like our other parent). They can't live alone anymore, can't shower alone or cook safely, etc. They don't need to be in a nursing home but can't function if that makes sense. They can't safely get in and out of bed anymore but are lucid enough not to want to be in a nursing home.[/quote]

Assisted living facilities will do an assessment at time of entry to determine if your mom qualifies to live there.  I would add that you don't want your mom in an assisted living facility if her needs exceed what they can provide.  They won't have one to one staffing (or even close) so I would worry if she truly can't get out of bed and be mobile without assistance-- that's when people are at a high risk of falls.  Help with cooking, showering, or dressing is less serious.

It sounds like finances aren't an issue, but most of the options discussed in this thread, including assisted living, are not covered by Medicare.  Generally hospice and a nursing home would be.[/quote]

Medicare does not pay for a nursing home, just hospice.  Long term care Medicaid pays for nursing home.  Some states pay for assisted living, most don’t. [/quote]

Maryland does not.[/quote]

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