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[quote=Anonymous]OP - I posted before that we were in a similar boat. Just wanted to bring up one point - you mention above that you don't want your dad to think you are shallow for wanting a nicer house. But you DON'T want a nicer house - you want a more expensive one, and that is not the same thing. I really think reasons matter, and that your Dad won't think it is shallow to shorten your DH's commute / increase his time with your family / strengthen his relationship with your children. A closer in house could mean the differene in DH being able to sneak out to a middle of the day school performance, or to get off early nice a week to coach a sports team. Will your kids be fine if DH can't do that? Yes. Will they appreciate it and remember it if he can? Yes.[/quote]
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