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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are on a slippery slope. Now is the time to establish rules with extended family. [b]We don't allow anybody there if we're not there.[/b][/quote] This! Once you allow something one time with some in-laws that sets a precedent and then when you try to pull back on that you are seen as mean, but who cares. I would not let them think that they can automatically use the house anytime they feel like it. I would not let them use the house [b]unless you are there[/b]. This is your investment not theirs. [/quote] This is why it is important you set a precedent early. It is extremely hard to walk back generosity without people complaining and guilting you.[/quote]
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