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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP. So he yelled at me like a complete rage-person… monster (?)… I don’t know what’s wrong with him and it’s numbness from pain as I can’t help, as he won’t go to anger management and I feel like I should not be the one setting those up.

But then, how does anyone go through divorce really, when the reason is — he yells at meter  I ask basic questions about money.

How will I explain this to anyone??? [/quote]

I’ll be honest: it’s hard to explain but it doesn’t count in divorce proceedings as much as you hope it will. When you do initial divorce consults attorneys will either get it or they won’t. If you tell some of the anecdotes you did here and the attorneys argue or aren’t following, they’re not the ones for you. I’m mid-divorce from someone like this who used financial control as a way to keep me stuck, engaged in a lot of secret spending, and forced me to spend down an inheritance by withholding money for basic expenses.

Don’t focus on being believed or getting some kind of payback. You sound smart and disciplined so you will be way more stable financially with this parasite out of your life.

I believe you.[/quote]

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