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[quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry, OP. It’s time to focus on you and rebuilding a new, good life. You will no longer have to put energy into him and into a relationship that wasn’t 100%. It’s scary and it’s anger-inducing to have this happen to you. Your best revenge and best way forward is to think about yourself. We only get one life, so you, too, can think about finding more passion and fulfillment. Your kids will be ok but don’t get roped into having to be the primary face of this divorce or to covering for him in whatever way. He initiated this and he can bear the consequences with the kids. Tell the kids together if possible. Stay friendly with your in-laws if possible for the kids’ sake. Get a good lawyer and protect yourself financially. Right now you can aim for being polite to him, but you don’t have to act widely toward him anymore or take care of him and his needs in any way. His feelings are now not your problem. [/quote]
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