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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Am I the only one who thinks him ignoring her at the store adds to how creepy he is? I don't read this as politely backing off at all. I read it as taking the rejection out on her.

But then I've also had a stalker. If OP is creeped out, she absolutely needs to trust her gut and go to a different store.[/quote]

I totally disagree with you and I’m wondering what you think appropriate behavior would be? Maybe he was backing off because she blew him off outside of work (he didn’t approach her at his job despite having plenty of opportunity) perhaps he was respecting her boundary by waiting to see if she asked for help (which she didn’t). Even if he was interested in her he did everything correctly 1) approached her outside of the work environment and 2) picked up on her rejection and allowed her to set the boundaries (not asking him for help) other than simply not existing in her presence what exactly is this man supposed to do?  And FYI OP most definitely had a friendly relationship with this employee at some point, even if it was just casual hello/how are you at the store she has clearly spoken with him in the past.[/quote]

He was supposed to help her with the water as per his job description and the fact she's not supposed to put it on the scanner. If everything was a totally innocent misunderstanding, he should do his job despite awkwardness or at least go get someone else to help her. Ignoring her is emotionally immature.[/quote]

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