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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please help. I am looking to marry and have a child within the next few years.

I’m looking for the following in a man:
- character and integrity 
- intelligence 
- income 200k+ ( I make 150k)
- wants family and a child
- interested in health and fitness
- emotionally regulated
- interested in travel

Where and how can I find my person in the dev area? Any specific professions? Neighborhoods? Places of gathering?

I’m 38, slender and am told I’m pretty and look 32. Only dates I’ve met comment on how young I look and how nice my legs are. I’ve also been told I’m “elegant” and that they want to take me to a gala.

I don’t know what that says about me.

Please help! Any guidance would be amazing! [/quote]

Just one data point. I meet your criteria. Been very focused on my career, so single, no drama, no baggage, aged 39. I date 25 to 32, no exceptions, because biology is a fact of life. Sorry to bear the news, but a few similarly situated male friends have the same rule. And all my other friends are married with kids. Good luck, though.[/quote]

Assuming you want kids as a non-negotiable and want some time as a couple before having kids, that’s smart. Figure date for a bit, get married etc, it may take 2-3 years before you try to get pregnant.

I feel like matchmaker might help OP. Hard to find someone who puts a priority on having kids who will want to match with a 39 year old.

I do have a friend who met her husband at 40, got oops pregnant after they were engaged and has a healthy kid. So I’d say trying to arrange “spontaneous” meeting guys who check your boxes might help you not get immediately filtered out by age.
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