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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - thank you all for the responses.

These events I mentioned have happened more recently as I have been spending more time at home or with the baby.

As some mentioned some of these things can easily happen to anyone. Kids are unpredictable and life with kids is hectic. But my overall concern is that they happen more frequently with him because he can be relaxed about safety and a bit “checked out.”

To those who have asked - yes he went to the museum alone with the kids and left them to answer a call without telling them or anyone. He also went downstairs to make dinner while our toddler was having a tantrum in the bath because “he thought he would calm down.” The water was up to his chest while he was sitting. My toddler was thrashing around and throwing things. I actually came out already worried for safety even with the expectation that his dad was with him. He also had the baby at 2 months in a large duvet because he did not want to get the baby’s blanket and bent over to do something when the baby slipped out and fell.

I appreciate the honesty and tips. I agree that I will mostly be with the kids. And see if he agrees to parenting and safety classes.[/quote]

I think you need to have a come to Jesus talk with him. Not threaten divorce because empty threats are bad, but call him what he is, a neglectful parent that could get his kids killed or removed from the home. Tell him that if it happens again you will not leave him alone with the kids, which will cost you and you will resent him for it but unfortunately he can't keep them safe.

Also, consult an attorney about your options.[/quote]

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