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[quote=Anonymous][quote][/quote]At this point, our main goal is protecting our home, finances, and peace. We told her she needs to stay at her mom’s now after what she did this weekend, while we regroup, and she had a massive meltdown and told her dad he must hate her. [quote] IMO, it's all right--not great, but all right--if that is your "main goal." It is NOT okay if it's her father's. If it is, he's made it clear that "peace" is his main goal, and that means he's made it clear that he doesn't give a damn about his daughter. She knows that and it hurts. If he's really unwilling to parent--and it sounds as if he offloaded most of his responsibility to his current wife--then you need to put her into a therapeutic boarding school. If he's big law, he can afford it. There she will be able to get therapy for his refusal to love his child more than the all mighty dollar. That may be the only thing that can help.[/quote]
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