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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Leave him before he ruins your whole life and that of your children. He will  not ask or want 50/50 and even if he does he will not abide by it. You will live in peace. [/quote]

Don’t listen to this advice.

I stayed in a scary marriage because the reality was that I knew if I left my kids would be in even more danger without me to run interference and intervene. One day exDH lost it after a huge raise and was like, eff this listening to you, I’m out, and filed for a divorce.

Everyone assured me he would never even want 50/50 custody, and then two weeks later he filed for even more, and has been fighting for it ever since.

I’ve learned a LOT about his parents and siblings in the meantime and it helps me to understand why he’s scrambling to “win” and “save face.”

You cannot assume someone like this will leave you alone. The same shame and reactivity that made them volatile when the kids trigger them will very likely escalate into post-separation abuse if they have the legal system to validate them.[/quote]

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