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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with the PP who said to be the friend’s calm, not chaos. In your shoes I’d plant ideas in her head by offering to help, and then actually helping if she wants that help. Ex. “Let me know if you want recommendations for a lawyer to help you protect your assets now, in case he gets her pregnant or loses his job or something.” “If you want company for getting an STD test, I can go with you.” Be discreet but occasionally bring her flowers or a few nice chocolates or something. Just a little luxury that says someone cares about her. Take her to lunch or for a coffee/drink after work. If you’re able, keep an eye on her workload and see if there’s anything you can help with. She may be distracted or unable to focus, and could possibly drop some balls. Did she say whether she wants to leave him or not? [/quote]
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