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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have to save tomorrow's problems for tomorrow. Who knows what happens between now and then. There isn't really much you can do about it now. I would think it would be best if the kids knew that this was the plan, but none of this is really yours to handle. Other than I guess to possibly consider the fact that your kids might move to the area where he is.

What are your fears that are coming up here? Try not to assume what their reactions will be or how they'll feel about it. Chances are, if they really were super close, your ex wouldn't want to leave them and he'd want to be a more regular part of their lives as they move into adulthood. So as much as it may seem like they are going to be devastated or upset, it might not be so, or might not last long.[/quote]

She’s worried about money.  The kids live with her and see him a few times a week for a few hours.  [/quote]

Worried about money? 
You keep posting this. Support your hypothesis please, or shut up. Child support ends at 18 no matter where ex husband goes. OP said college is settled. If your comment was about inheritance, that was never going to go to OP in any case.[/quote]

some people on this board hate divorced mothers so much they can't stick to the topic at hand. Here we have a mother expressing valid concern over her kids and people are like "YOU KEEP THEM AWAY FROM THEIR DAD. YOU JUST WANT MONEY"[/quote]

There are more costs than just college and where the kids stay breaks and summer.  Mom is their home so no reason for dad to stay.  [/quote]

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