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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Try reading the book Come As You Are. You may be the responsive type who gets into it if you give it a chance even when you aren't initially in the mood. [/quote] DP. The problem with this is some men get mad if you start being affectionate and it does not lead to sex. My partner is like this. I've tried to explain that kissing and cuddling can sometimes lead to sex and sometimes not. But he doesn't want to do any of it UNLESS it's going to lead to sex. Since I am generally not turned on, I can't know in advance if I want sex or not. The fact he gets angry if we don't end up having sex means I'm inclined to shy away from any intimacy, since I don't know if it will lead to me wanting sex, and I don't want him to get mad.[/quote]
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