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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are divorced and have a kid or kids in college as well as a kid or kids still at home, do the college kids follow the 'schedule' with the youngers during summer and holidays?

My 19yo has been home all summer (10 weeks so far) and has spent maybe a week to 10 days at his dad's house total. His siblings switch every 2 weeks. I am encouraging him to go spend time at his dads and he says ok but then doesn't really do it. His dad tells him he is always welcome at his house and leaves it at that. I think his dad is blaming me a little bit and also hurt at ds' seeming disinterest although I truly do not thing ds has any issue with his dad at all. It is inertia or something. If the shoe were on the other foot I would be telling ds that I would love for him to stay with me so please come and I would make him lots of food. Exh is being more passive though. I am sure I am overthinking this. But this is our first summer in this situation so figuring it out. Next summer he probably won't even be in town at all though. [/quote]

Not having a home and moving weekly or biweekly to two different houses is one of the reasons why divorce is tough on kids. [/quote]

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