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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t bother Op. don’t bother talking about feelings with someone who clearly doesn’t want to nor can handle it. He’s emotionally stunted. Focus on yourself, your kids, your friends & family, your career and activities. Outsource the cooking, cleaning, yard work. You’ll still have to do all the household’s thinking, organizing, planning, problem solving. View you spouse as dim-witted arm candy. Consider changing your PoA and health decisions to someone who gives a damn and is reliable. Teach your kids to set boundaries w “takers”. [/quote] To be sure, this kind of attitude is likely why he is detached in the first place. Men withdraw when their women henpeck, nag, and make it obvious they "view" them as "dim-witted." Who would want to engage with such a person if you're being treated that way?[/quote] Lol. If someone showed me my consistent track record of dimwittedness I’d sure show them… more dimwittedness! [/quote]
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