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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I used to think that men cared about a woman's financial situation. Then I got divorced and started dating again. Men don't care one bit about a woman's finances. They don't care that you have a high status career. They don't care that you earn more than 70% of men. They only care about how you look and how you make them feel about themselves. It's pathetic. But that's the way it is. [/quote] They don't at the starting when it is all about sex but [b]if it has to do more with LTR, living in etc then they definitely do. Noone wants to date a person that can't even pay for their own meal now and then[/b]. [/quote] Completely FALSE.... This poster must be a woman. I dated my wife, she was 25 at the time, when she still lived at home, worked as a yoga instructor, and was still paying off her student loan debt. I was 28 years old at the time and had just come off a Fintech job with fully vested RSUs worth about $8M. I didn’t care that she was broke, because she was—and still is—gorgeous. Even if she had made $250K, it wouldn’t have changed my view of her in any way. [/quote] So you're one of the few men who enjoys having a woman completely dependent on you, as long as she's hot that is. See, transactional.[/quote] Yes, and what he described is not OPs situation because his hot wife was bringing a lot to the table. He's still stupid for marrying a yoga instructor because the way she lived shows she wouldn’t be able to raise successful and functional kids. If you want a looser son and a hot stupid daughter who spends whole day talking garbage and doing makeup - do what he did. I actually saw that dating in my 40s - highly successful divorced men with exes who never worked and were coaches, cosmetologists, therapists, models, writers etc. They all had kids who couldn’t finish a college or went to low ranked liberal arts schools and worked as ski instructors, DJs, still lived with dad’s into late 20s sucking money etc [/quote]
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