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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I doubt it's about the expense. They probably don't feel comfortable doing this without you as a support person. Or they don't think they can get from train to college because they don't want to drive a rental car in an unfamiliar area.

So much of seniors' demands is them trying to work around their inability and people not wanting to see it for what it is. [/quote]

They're very autonomous in all other ways: both work, both are very active and walk miles every day, go out constantly with friends. I get that the driving is really intimidating at their age and I'd never demand they drive that far, but they are demanding it from us and I don't think that's fair either. And yes, i am scared to say no because they will be pissed off.[/quote]

What’s wrong with letting your husband handle it? It’s his parents, he can say yes or no. You can chill at home. [/quote]

No, he doesn't want to go alone with them. I also do think ds would think it's weird if I don't go. It would have to be during a weekend.[/quote]

Your husband can suck it up, or he can be the one to tell them no. If they're unhappy they can discuss it with the son they raised.

Stop people-pleasing! Your DS can also learn to deal. It's not weird. [/quote]

I've trained by inlaws to go to DH, not me.  He has to man up and decide if he wants to meet their demands or tell them no.  It's not my relationship to manage.[/quote]

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