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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] :cry: [quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s fun[/quote] I’ve had times in my life when I thought being mean was fun. Looking back, these were some of the least joyful, least fulfilled, and most insecure moments I experienced. I always regretted my meanness, too — and life is so short. [/quote] I agree with all of this except the regret.[/quote] I don't think regret is particularly helpful, but I do think regret is warranted when someone is intentionally mean and realize later that [b]the mean-ness was unwarranted[/b].[/quote] There’s the disconnect. I know I shouldn’t say mean things. Even if a person really, truly deserves to hear the mean things. So I don’t want to be mean for my own mental health, but I don’t feel past meanness was unwarranted, necessarily.[/quote] [b]Is being mean ever warranted[/b] other than the self-satisfaction for the hit of feeling powerful for a few seconds? Do you thrive those seconds of feeling powerful by hurting someone else? I would say that someone you think deserves meanness really deserves non-judgmental stating of facts for what is really no more than your opinion.[/quote] Yes. Obviously. Just look around at what’s happening in our country right now, for example. The American Gestapo absolutely DESERVES every bit of meanness directed towards them now and for the rest of their (hopefully miserable) lives. Quite frankly, you deserve meanness for this naive and judgmental take, but I’ll save it for now. You’re welcome.[/quote]
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