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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again: I feel the whole ordeal has been so traumatic for me. I had to go to great lengths to find concrete evidence to justify this, I feel my life became about the betrayal. I haven’t told the kids yet but they will know I worry. I feel this has affected my work and my ability to focus as well. I hope it’s temporary. Anyone else went through this and recovered? I am not even thinking of dating at this point..[/quote] It is a trauma, OP. You need to be more gentle with yourself. Of course it's affected every aspect of your life! You will recover, but it could take some time. My only suggestion would be trying to dedicate time to think/worry/scream about this situation and otherwise dedicate time to your work, your kids, your life, etc. It's totally normal to have the reaction you're having, I just hope you can find a way to move forward and get some peace restored in your life. I'm sorry. [/quote]
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