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[quote=Anonymous]As someone who had a mother we all had to appease or else, I can say that the first thing I did was move out. I did have to come back a few times when I was down on my luck but eventually I moved far away. I think it’s very difficult to break this dynamic and unfortunately there’s no middle ground. You’ll have to outright forbid your mother to come over and deal with her upset. Your dad should have gotten her in check decades ago but it is what it is. I think you should change the code, lock the doors and tell her she can’t come over but that you will visit them. She won’t be able to control herself once she gets into your house. Or you should only have her over for weekend dinners. [/quote]
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