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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don't need to connect just like you can't actually care for 11 children in any meaningful way. You are a farm with animals not human beings. You can't actually get divorced so yeah.

Ok, aside from my snarkiness. The only realistic chance you have is virtual therapy and requiring your oldest to watch the kids to escape. It doesn't actually change your reality which is you had too many kids and your expectations of your time. [/quote]

This is harsh to read. But ehhhh true.

Also don’t believe for one minute that w 11 kids OP is in Tailand.

Nonetheless same dead bedroom awaits you both when you return. [/quote]

I don’t believe it either. What mom with that many elementary aged kids can start to prioritize couple time in December, when every day is a class party or show. Plus the teens. I don’t even think a couple with 11 kids deserves date nights. The kids are already attention deprived. [/quote]

Exactly! 
No one human  is equipped to handle  11 kids but their parents.

Grandparents are also probably too old

If they had a nanny OP wouldn’t be here looking g for cheap ways to reconnect.

But ok.. 
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Don’t they usually follow the Dugger method? Older kids get the honor of raising the younger ones while the adults keep breeding.[/quote]

That literally has to suck!

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