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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP back with an update.

I tried giving him more direct instructions during sex tonight, do this, say this, etc. thinking maybe he just didn’t know what to do.

It did not go over well. We had a long discussion, basically he said me asking for what I want during sex is a major turn off for him and makes him lose interest.

I made some other suggestions like we watch some p0rn together to show our likes/dislikes, maybe find a couple books, show him some Reels with things I want to try, etc, and he called those “perversions”.

The weird thing is he still wants to keep dating?! I think it’s pretty clear we’re just not sexually compatible, I don’t know why he’d want to keep seeing each other when we’re both unhappy sexually.

Anyway, I suggested we take a few days apart to think it over. I’m going to break up with him once things cool off (I was really angry at the perv comment, he implied that because I need more spice than silent kissing and missionary, something is wrong with me).[/quote]

This was exactly the case with my ex-gf who have low sex drive, only likes missionary style and would not do much in bed and calls herself pillow princess. This wasn't the case when we started dating. No oral giving or receiving from her either and I broke up with her. [/quote]

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