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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

Husband also doesn't pay attention to his own kids, not sure if I mentioned that before. He never helps when I need it. He's too absorbed in himself and hobbies to be present, physically or mentally.

As I was doing the dishes just now, he (magically) decided to get on the ground with our youngest (a baby) - in the span of 7 minutes our baby falls over and bonks their head twice, leading to screaming/crying.

He said he wasn't looking at his phone but then also said he didn't anticipate baby falling based on the angles and the fact that babies don't understand physics. I don't get it. I'm very mad right now. This stuff doesn't happen when I am present.

I sense he is trying to make an effort now because for the last week I have been gray rocking. I'm just feeling very done with everything. And I'm beyond frustrated.[/quote]

Op. I hope you’re not being hasty. You have a baby and other kids and you’re planning to leave your husband? Ok. What’s the long term plan? [/quote]

OP here.

I don't think I'm being hasty - I was dumb and blind for many years. Yes, an argument can be made that it wasn't smart to have more kids - that is neither here nor there at this point. But I don't regret any of my kids.

Thankfully I have family who I know would help support me until I can get on my feet by myself.

Have to wait a year anyways before filing..[/quote]

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