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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm someone who hates faking my happiness or even just that nothing is wrong. I can't do anything for the rest of the year because of the holidays. But I'm getting so antsy to just put this all out there with my spouse. It's just not the right time. Especially because I need to move important documents and hopefully get a job lined up first. But once you were ready, how did you announce it? Were you located somewhere else for fear of retaliation? I appreciate any insight..[/quote] You do not “tell them.” They are irrational al and volatile and abusive. You quietly plan everything, start everything going, do as much as possible, then simultaneously move out with the kid, freeze the assets, serve the divorce papers & temporary custody and child support papers, and only communicate via lawyers or court text app thereafter. And Yellow Rock. [/quote]
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