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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I haven't read all the responses, but I think there must have been more of a bond with the cousin than you realized. That said, I would have felt just like you. Very hurt. If it were me, I would try to find some reasoning as to the connection that you didn't realize with GM and C. Then move on. This is the sort of thing that could derail me for a period of time. (I am not proud to type that, but hope it might be helpful.)[/quote] Feeling hurt in this situation is perfectly normal. Nothing to be ashamed of. We all long to be loved and cherished. Since we cannot see inside people's hearts, [b]tangible actions such as leaving money behind, help reinforce these feelings[/b]. Like OP said, it would be different if there was no money for cousins.[/quote] What about the loving times you had with the person when there were alive, those where sure tangible. Leaving money behind is not necessarily an act of love[/quote]
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