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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Any tips for how I find a woman like this? I'm a woman with major mommy issues (mine was extremely emotionally distant and hateful towards me and either tried to set me up to fail or ignored me, according to her whim). I'm not even kidding. I actually love overbearing women who take me under their wing and I feel a deep lack of one in my life right now.[/quote]

OP here. I honestly wish I could meet you IRL and hand off the ones in my life to you. You are exactly what they are looking for. My dad was distant and disdainful, but my mom was overbearing in much the way these women are. I do think that's why I attract them -- I spent so much of my childhood appeasing a woman with these tendencies and I think I just fall into it sometimes and they like it. But the result is that they will attempt to "guide" and "mold" me the way my mom always used to, and I will emotionally feel the way I did as a teenager when I realized how much I hated being controlled in that way (and the inherent judgment implied by someone constantly telling you "no, do it like *this*"). It's just never a good situation but every few years I seem to encounter a woman like this who latches on to me and tries to turn me into her sidekick or minion. I've learned to detach and avoid but that's also work. I just want a break.[/quote]

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