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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, how much do you really know about this man's divorce that isn't his self-serving account? Have you seen any actual evidence? Because your statement that his ex is the problem suggests that you're very naïve. This man is proposing that you guys get into a financial entanglement that Ray Charles could see is ill-advised. He sounds like someone who sets up drama, consciously or unconsciously, and is playing out pathological issues. Maybe you're the same. Something in both of you wasn't satisfied with the drama of your last divorce and needs more.

In a year or two, you're going to be back here with a terrible account of how the property was wrested from you in spite of his promises or how you're struggling to make payments to save your credit after he quit on you.[/quote]

No, I think you and PP 5:20 are misunderstanding. He's buying the house himself and will be the sole owner. If something tragic happened, his kids would inherit the house. If they broke up, he would keep the house.[/quote]
OP needs to come back and clarify this, assuming it isn't a troll. What she wrote is: "He approached me last week and told me that he'd like to [i][b]buy us [/i][/b]a city place as a home base [i][b]for us [/i][/b]for when we don't have the kids." The mention of "us" suggest that even if he is footing the bill, it is intended to be [i]their [/i]place, as in she is on the title and is a co-owner.[/quote]

Good point, I guess it could be either way. I think I just interpreted "for us" as meaning she'll spend time and keep belongings there, not that he'd be buying it with her legally/financially, because I think it's nuts to do that when you're just dating and haven't even met each other's kids yet.[/quote]

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