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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Today’s my birthday. I told my boyfriend a week in advance I’d like him to come over today and spend time at my place for my bday. he said he didn’t know if he was free.

I was disappointed and have been taking space this week assuming we won’t see each other. he texted this afternoon asking if I could come over because he wanted to cook me a nice bday dinner. 
I didn’t see it til a few hours later and said ok.

Then he says he hadn’t heard from me all day so now he made plans to play video games with his friends.[b] I deserve better.[/b][/quote]

Why do you think that? 
It's your fault you didn't check your messages on your own Bday. Who does that?

Sounds like you are not mature enough for an adult relationship. 
Also why are you dating man-children who play video games?

Let us guess, he is close to your own age and not at least 10 years older huh? That's what you get for dating children. [/quote]

Eww. Grown men are, by definition, not children, and shouldn't need even the basic level of handholding OP provided. Someone who cared wouldn't need to be told to make plans for her birthday. He would've asked, at a minimum.

Quit excusing mediocrity from "men". Guys, you need to grow up![/quote]

Quit treating them like children then?  :idea: [/quote]

In a comment thread saying men have to have a 10-year head start to show enough maturity to plan a simple birthday hangout with more than 24-hours notice after being asked to do so a week in advance?

The bar is in hell and y'all still trip.[/quote]

Modern men are a product of single-mothers and 60% divorce rates. [/quote]

Yes. Modern men are the product of other men who failed to raise them better, probably because they failed to be better themselves.[/quote]

It is the women's fault for choosing them and enabling them. Also, the women are biiitches if they won't marry the men and tolerate their behavior.[/quote]

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