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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am dating my recent gf of 6 months and she is 42. Overall, talks a big game that she is a feminist and women's rights etc but never go 50-50 on anything. I am very liberal and progressive and agree with most of the things she says about women etc but don't understand why her walk is different than her talk. I like her and have no problem spending $s as I make a lot more than her but she sometime acts like an entitled person and wants man to take care of her like in traditional setting. Not only her, but she is also teaching her young daughter to not go 50-50 on anything with her bf and counts a small thing such as driving to see him for 50 miles as enough contribution that he should take care of all the expenses for the weekend such as hotel, food, going out for drinks, etc. [b]Is she really a feminist [/b]if her beliefs and values are in such a way that she can't even afford her own self? [/quote] No. Neither are you for that matter. [/quote] It's ok if OP is not a feminist because he is not claiming to be one. Issue is that his GF is a hypocrite and just takes advantage to whatever she could get and cherry pick everything for her benefits. She has to be a good human first before her values and fight for feminism come into play. [/quote] Try to find a single feminist, just one, that is not a hypocrite. [/quote] This depends entirely on how you define feminism. Some simply take it to mean what's best fort the woman in any given situation conflict and advocate as such. Through that lens, the positions aren't really hypocritical.[/quote]
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