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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex-wife, the product of waspy boarding schools and a cushy upbringing, became a vocal &quot;anti-white-patriarchy&quot; progressive who believes women got and still get a raw deal.

Her raw deal included making $100k with summers off while contributing ZERO to mortgage, utilities, car payments / insurance, phone costs, college savings, vacation flights, hotels, college savings, tech equipment, kids' gear, and 95% of restaurant dinners. Yep, I made more -- but &lt; $250k.

Maybe she is an outlier, but I'm not so sure.

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Why did you marry her?[/quote]

[b]Some people are just users[/b] and act like a victim and hide behind any term whether it’s feminist or whatever else. [/quote]

It's quite ironic that you say the woman is the user, but in reality men are the real users, displacing much of the work of home and life onto women in the relational sphere, and much other kinds of administrative and relational work in the work world.

Why would a man who earns more expect to go 50/50 instead of a prorated portion according to income?  That is using the woman.  Why would a man expect a woman to come over and cook for his kids when her kids are not there.  That is using a woman to provide parenting services to children that are not hers. OFC, if I was invited to someone else's home, I wouldn't dream of cooking for them.  If they weren't prepared to cook a meal in their home, I would expect them to order out.

It's weird how men with money don't recognize that when they expect a 50/50 financial contribution that's "equality" but they aren't willing to take care of their own business (their own children) fully on their own instead, expecting another woman to contribute, i.e. they aren't willing to recognize 50/50 in areas of life which require effort but that effort can't be measured by 50/50 in terms of payment.[/quote]

LOL! where did you read that OP's gf is paying anything? She is paying 0 and not contributing in any other way either and that's why she is a fake feminist. She is just using OP and lazy that doesn't want to take care of anything. [/quote]

Because she's in the red financially and OP is net positive. OP chose to date the woman in the red/large debts. I wouldn't expect a man pay anything if I knew they were in need and we were in love. Women support unemployed husbands all the time. 
OP needs to date someone his age in his financial position if he wants equal contribution.[/quote]

This is so true. Women who just pick feminism when it suits them but not at the time of paying bills are super fake and ended up getting what they deserve. Very soon, OP would leave this woman and if she thinks that sex or body is needed to attract other men then she would progressively get worse partners as she age. Worried thing is that she is making her daughter think like that too and this would lead into generational pain and sugaring for Op's gf and her family but when did she care. [/quote]

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