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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I am like 1.5 hrs away from DC and usually come down to date. I am very independent and liberal but couldn't do 50-50 on a date when I was going out before I met my ex-bf. He was very good in financial department and paid for everything from Caribbean trips, expensive gifts, eating out, a lot of stuff for my house, also gifts for my kids, etc and I regret things not working out with him. I doubt I would find another guy who is so invested in me and also support me financially.

I have been taking ozempic but it is not doing much after dropping 10 lbs and it is very frustrating. [/quote]

From one overweight woman to another: eat less. Take a couple of months to figure out how much you'd need to eat to maintain 150 pounds. Eat that for the rest of your life. You don't need Ozempic at your weight.

Or, be happy at your weight and date whoever loves you at that weight. [/quote]

OP is only 5’3”  her goal should be more around 120 lbs, maybe 130 with menopause gain[/quote]

Meh. Setting smaller attainable goals is better than setting grander ones. It's very reasonable to expect someone to lose 30 pounds in less than a year. It's much harder to lose 50. Plus, being 20 pounds overweight is much better than being 50 pounds overweight.

OP does not need to be perfect size. She will benefit from an attainable 30 pound weight loss
 It will boost her self esteem and make her look much better. If she wants to keep going after that, great.[/quote]

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