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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My surprise 4th is the best gift I’ve ever received. The BEST![/quote]

Odd response to a grieving OP because she cannot have a 4th 
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[quote=Anonymous]Isn’t op contemplating a 4th?[/quote]

Not exactly.  OP has already decided she wants the child. OP is contemplating moving on, or continue trying to persuade someone who does not want this child to re-consider.

[quote=Anonymous]I just reread the post. ]it seems like she’s looking to hear from people who had a 4th. Regardless, this is dcum…where you can just throw out your two cents or any reaction to a post. I stand by my btdt testimony.[/quote]

Based on your prior comment, I think your situations are different.

[quote=Anonymous]PS - accidents/surprises happen (especially as you age and cycles become erratic)[/quote]

But we should encourage avoiding accidents where one party does not want to parent a child. It's [i]possible[/i] they'll change their mind, after the baby arrives. But the risks are too high: this is a child. Possibly this is 2 children. Possibly this is a special needs child.

If one parent is not 100% certain, fully prepared for twins or SN, then practice family planning. [b]OPs partner is 50% of this and should be scheduling a vasectomy. [/b]

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Why do people feel like anyone else [b]should[/b] be pursuing permanent birth control?  I do not recall OP mentioning anywhere in her posts that her partner was contemplating a vasectomy.  This is a weird leap.[/quote]

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