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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If it could in any way endanger the financial stream that flows to your children, I would not do this. If their relationship becomes public, which she probably wants, everyone will know. Just leave it alone.[/quote] 100%. But I did use it as leverage in the divorce negotiations. [/quote] How did you use it as a leverage?[/quote] I’m the PP. It was a messy situation and I had information. My marriage was over one way or another, so I didn’t care about anything but getting the best settlement for our kids and me. I didn't care what happened to AP. My problem wasn’t with her, but she’d have been collateral damage had we ended up litigating, which was held out as the nuclear option. When XH tried to be cheap, my lawyer did a show and tell for his lawyer, laying out what full discovery would look like. [/quote]
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